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MMH Men’s Mental Health does not provide direct mental health support. We do not offer crisis intervention, therapy, counselling, or medical advice. Instead, we provide information and signposting to external services that may be able to help.

Feeling stuck and unable to cope? You are not alone—help is available.

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Need to talk?

Samaritans are here to listen, 24/7, 365 days a year. You can call them for free on 116 123 or visit www.samaritans.org

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Prefer to Text?

Shout is a free, confidential, 24/7 text messaging support service for anyone who is struggling to cope.

If you feel in danger please call 999 or go directly to emergency services.

Debt: The Weight on Your Shoulders and How to Lift It

Debt can feel like a constant weight on your shoulders, affecting not just your finances but also your mental health. For many men, debt creates financial stress that leads to anxiety, depression, and even relationship issues. This guide will help you understand the impact debt has on your mental health and offer practical ways to manage both your financial situation and emotional well-being.

What is Debt?

Debt occurs when you borrow money that must be repaid over time, often with interest. It can come from various sources, including credit cards, loans, overdrafts, and unpaid bills. While some debt is manageable, excessive or unplanned debt can create overwhelming pressure.

What Causes Debt?

Debt can accumulate for several reasons, often through no fault of your own. Some common causes include:

  • Job Loss or Reduced Income – Unexpected changes in employment can lead to financial hardship.
  • Cost of Living Increases – Rising expenses for rent, bills, and essentials can exceed income.
  • Medical Expenses – Healthcare costs, especially private treatment, can lead to unexpected debt.
  • Poor Financial Planning – Lack of budgeting or overspending on credit cards can result in financial difficulties.
  • Unexpected Emergencies – Car repairs, home damage, or family emergencies may force borrowing.
  • Gambling or Addictions – Gambling addiction or substance use can drain finances and increase debt.

What are the Symptoms of Debt-Related Stress?

Debt doesn’t just impact finances—it affects mental and emotional well-being. Common signs include:

🟠 Emotional & Psychological Symptoms

  • Constant worry or anxiety about money
  • Feeling trapped or hopeless about debt
  • Difficulty sleeping due to financial concerns
  • Increased irritability or frustration

🟠 Physical Symptoms

  • Headaches, tension, or fatigue caused by stress
  • Difficulty concentrating at work or home
  • Loss of appetite or overeating due to worry

🟠 Behavioral Symptoms

  • Avoiding opening letters or checking bank statements
  • Withdrawing from social activities to save money
  • Arguing with loved ones over financial issues

📌 If these symptoms persist, it may be time to seek professional financial or mental health support.

What are the Types of Debt?

Different types of debt affect people in different ways:

  • Secured Debt – Loans backed by an asset (e.g., mortgages, car loans). If unpaid, lenders can reclaim the asset.
  • Unsecured Debt – Credit card balances, overdrafts, and payday loans, which often have high interest rates.
  • Priority Debt – Debts that have serious consequences if unpaid, such as rent arrears, council tax, or utility bills.
  • Non-Priority Debt – Debts that may not have immediate legal consequences, such as store card balances.
  • Gambling or Lifestyle Debt – Debt accumulated through excessive spending on non-essential items.
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External Support for Debt

  • StepChange offers free debt advice and management plans to help men struggling with financial difficulties.
  • Mind provides support for managing the mental health impact of debt and financial stress, including tips on coping with anxiety and depression.
  • Citizens Advice offers guidance on dealing with debt, including legal advice and support for managing creditors.
  • Samaritans provides emotional support for men dealing with stress and anxiety caused by debt, with a 24/7 confidential helpline.
  • The Money Advice Service offers free advice on managing debt, budgeting, and financial planning.

While we aim to provide accurate and updated information, MMH Men’s Mental Health is not responsible for the quality, accuracy, or availability of external services linked on this page. If you notice a broken link or have a resource to suggest, let us know.

Simple Actions That Can Help You Feel Better

These steps can help you navigate challenges and build resilience over time.

If your struggles persist or affect your daily life, consulting a professional is recommended.

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Face Your Finances

It’s easy to ignore your debt, but facing it head-on is the first step. Create a clear picture of your debt, including balances and interest rates, and develop a plan to pay it down.

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Reach Out for Help

Don’t be afraid to talk to a financial advisor or debt relief service. Professionals can offer strategies to reduce interest rates or consolidate loans to make payments more manageable.

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Manage Your Stress

Practice stress management techniques like meditation, exercise, or deep breathing to alleviate financial stress. Prioritize your mental health alongside managing your finances.

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Avoid Quick Fixes

Stay away from payday loans or other high-interest, short-term financial solutions that might worsen your debt. Instead, look for long-term solutions that offer sustainable relief.

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Talk to Loved Ones

Don’t isolate yourself. Share your financial concerns with trusted friends or family members. They can offer support, and having open conversations may relieve some of the emotional burden.

You Are Awesome.

Someone is ready to listen whenever you need them.

Take the next step:

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Need to talk?
Samaritans are here to listen, 24/7. You can call them for free on 116 123 or visit www.samaritans.org

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Prefer texting?
Shout offers free, 24/7 confidential support. Text ‘SHOUT’ to 85258 to start a conversation or visit
www.giveusashout.org

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Looking for guidance? Browse external resources on mental health, self-care, and well-being.

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Support Groups
Find connection. Join an external support group and connect with others who understand.

MMH Men’s Mental Health does not provide direct support. These options connect you to external services and resources.