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Feeling anxious and overwhelmed? You don’t have to go through it alone.

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Need to talk?

Samaritans are here to listen, 24/7, 365 days a year. You can call them for free on 116 123 or visit www.samaritans.org

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Prefer to Text?

Shout is a free, confidential, 24/7 text messaging support service for anyone who is struggling to cope.

If you feel in danger please call 999 or go directly to emergency services.

Anxiety in Men: When Worry Takes Control

Anxiety is more than just feeling nervous—it’s a constant sense of unease, dread, or fear that can hijack your day and leave you feeling out of control. Many men experience anxiety in physical ways—tightness in the chest, restlessness, or even irritability—making it easy to dismiss or ignore.

If anxiety is affecting your daily life, relationships, or work, it’s time to take action.

This page covers:

✔ What anxiety is
✔ What causes anxiety
✔ Common symptoms of anxiety in men
✔ Different types of anxiety disorders
✔ How to manage anxiety in a healthy way

What is Anxiety?

Anxiety is a natural emotion that helps keep us alert and prepared for danger. However, when anxiety becomes excessive, persistent, and starts interfering with daily life, it can develop into a diagnosable mental health condition.

📌 In men, anxiety can manifest differently—sometimes as anger, muscle tension, or avoidance behaviors rather than visible worry or fear.

What Causes Anxiety in Men?

There’s no single cause of anxiety, but common contributing factors include:

🔹 Biological Factors – Genetics, brain chemistry, and hormonal imbalances can play a role.
🔹 Psychological Factors – Stressful life events, past trauma, and negative thinking patterns can increase vulnerability.
🔹 Social Pressures – Society’s expectation to “stay strong” can make it harder for men to seek help, leading to bottled-up anxiety.
🔹 Substance UseAlcohol and drugs may provide temporary relief but often worsen symptoms in the long run.
🔹 Social Media Anxiety – Constantly comparing yourself to others online or feeling like you’re missing out can fuel anxiety.

📌 The pressure to maintain a “perfect” online persona can also be a significant trigger for anxiety in men.

What Are the Symptoms of Anxiety in Men?

While everyone experiences anxiety differently, common signs to watch for in men include:

🟠 Emotional Symptoms
Irritability or anger (often mistaken for aggression)
Feeling restless or on edge
Trouble concentrating or focusing
Avoidance behaviors (skipping work, social situations, or tasks that trigger anxiety)

🟠 Physical Symptoms
Fatigue (even after a full night’s sleep)
Muscle tension (especially in the neck, jaw, or shoulders)
Trouble sleeping (difficulty falling or staying asleep)
Headaches, dizziness, or digestive issues

📌 In some men, anxiety can lead to sudden outbursts of anger—a response to feeling overwhelmed.

Types of Anxiety Disorders

Anxiety isn’t a one-size-fits-all condition. There are different types, each with unique symptoms:

🟡 Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)Persistent, uncontrollable worry about everyday things, often paired with muscle tension and fatigue.
🟡 Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD) – Intense fear of social situations, criticism, or judgment from others.
🟡 Panic DisorderSudden, overwhelming fear accompanied by chest pain, dizziness, or shortness of breath.
🟡 Phobias – Intense fear of specific objects or situations (e.g., heights, enclosed spaces, flying).

Many men may also experience:

🔹 Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) – Repetitive thoughts or behaviors used to reduce anxiety.
🔹 Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) – Anxiety that develops after a traumatic event.

📌 Men are more likely to experience phobias related to physical injury or danger.

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Anxiety

  • Anxiety UK provides resources and support for managing anxiety.
  • No Panic offers support for individuals suffering from panic attacks, phobias, and anxiety disorders.
  • No More Panic offers information, support, and advice for managing anxiety.
  • Mind provides information and support for mental health, including anxiety.
  • Anxiety Care UK offers help and support for those suffering from anxiety disorders.

While we aim to provide accurate and updated information, MMH Men’s Mental Health is not responsible for the quality, accuracy, or availability of external services linked on this page. If you notice a broken link or have a resource to suggest, let us know.

Ways to Cope and Regain Control

Taking small steps can lead to big changes. Try these strategies to move forward.

If your struggles persist or affect your daily life, consulting a professional is recommended.

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Talk to someone you trust
Open up to a friend, family member, therapist, or doctor. Sharing your struggles can be a huge weight off your shoulders.
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Educate yourself
Learn more about anxiety disorders, their symptoms, and different treatment options. Knowledge is power!
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Seek professional help
A therapist can provide cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) which is highly effective in managing anxiety. They can also teach stress-management techniques and relaxation exercises.
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Focus on healthy habits
Prioritize a balanced diet, regular exercise, quality sleep, and activities you enjoy. These habits can significantly improve your mood and reduce anxiety symptoms.
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Build a support system

Surround yourself with positive and supportive people who understand what you’re going through. Consider joining an anxiety support group for men.

Your Mental Health Matters.

It’s okay to not be okay - help is out there.

Take the next step:

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Need to talk?
Samaritans are here to listen, 24/7. You can call them for free on 116 123 or visit www.samaritans.org

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Prefer texting?
Shout offers free, 24/7 confidential support. Text ‘SHOUT’ to 85258 to start a conversation or visit
www.giveusashout.org

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Explore More
Looking for guidance? Browse external resources on mental health, self-care, and well-being.

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Support Groups
Find connection. Join an external support group and connect with others who understand.

MMH Men’s Mental Health does not provide direct support. These options connect you to external services and resources.