ℹ️ This site covers mental health topics and resources. For direct support, please reach out to external services.

MMH Men’s Mental Health does not provide direct mental health support. We do not offer crisis intervention, therapy, counselling, or medical advice. Instead, we provide information and signposting to external services that may be able to help.

Having a tough time? You don’t have to face it aloneβ€”help is available.

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Need to talk?

Samaritans are here to listen, 24/7, 365 days a year. You can call them for free on 116 123 or visit www.samaritans.org

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Prefer to Text?

Shout is a free, confidential, 24/7 text messaging support service for anyone who is struggling to cope.

If you feel in danger please call 999 or go directly to emergency services.

Understanding Trauma and Its Impact on Mental Health

Trauma is a deeply distressing or disturbing experience that can have long-term effects on mental health. Many men experience trauma from childhood, relationships, accidents, violence, or life-threatening events, often struggling to process these experiences.

While some people recover naturally, others may develop chronic emotional distress, anxiety, or PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder). Ignoring trauma can lead to anger issues, emotional numbness, or risky behaviors as coping mechanisms.

This page covers:
βœ” What trauma is and how it affects men’s mental health
βœ” Types of trauma and their impact
βœ” Signs of unresolved trauma
βœ” Steps to process and heal from trauma

What Is Trauma?

Trauma is a psychological response to a deeply distressing event that overwhelms a person’s ability to cope. It can be caused by a single event (e.g., an accident) or repeated experiences (e.g., childhood abuse).

βœ… Trauma is treatable – with the right support, people can process their experiences and regain emotional stability.
Unresolved trauma can lead to mental health conditions such as PTSD, depression, anxiety, and substance abuse.

πŸ“Œ Understanding trauma is the first step toward healing.

What Causes Trauma in Men?

While combat exposure is a well-known cause, many other events can lead to trauma in men:

  • Physical or sexual assault (as a child or adult)
  • Childhood abuse or neglect
  • Witnessing violence (domestic violence, accidents, shootings)
  • Serious accidents or injuries
  • Sudden loss of a loved one
  • Chronic work stress
  • Bullying or harassment
  • Combat experiences

For men specifically: Societal expectations to “be strong” and suppress emotions can make it difficult to process trauma and seek help. This can lead to delayed diagnosis and worsen symptoms.

Types of Trauma

Men can experience trauma from many sources, and its effects can vary depending on the situation.

πŸ”Ή Common Types of Trauma

βœ” Acute Trauma – A one-time event, such as an accident, assault, or sudden loss.
βœ” Chronic Trauma – Repeated exposure to stress or harm, such as childhood abuse or domestic violence.
βœ” Complex Trauma – Trauma caused by long-term, repeated exposure to distressing events, often in relationships or childhood.
βœ” Work-Related Trauma – Trauma experienced in high-risk jobs, such as military service, emergency response, or law enforcement.
βœ” Medical Trauma – Trauma related to serious illnesses, injuries, or medical procedures.

πŸ“Œ Some people process trauma naturally, while others may develop long-term mental health struggles.

Signs of Unresolved Trauma

Many men struggle to recognize the impact of trauma, leading to mental, emotional, and physical symptoms.

🟠 Psychological Symptoms

Intrusive thoughts, flashbacks, or nightmares
Emotional numbness or detachment from loved ones
Intense guilt, shame, or self-blame
Uncontrollable anger or irritability

🟠 Physical Symptoms

Sleep disturbances (insomnia, night sweats, or nightmares)
Chronic pain, headaches, or tension
Increased heart rate or panic attacks
Fatigue, exhaustion, or loss of energy

🟠 Behavioral Symptoms

Avoiding places, people, or conversations related to the trauma
Increased alcohol or drug use to numb emotions
High-risk behaviors (reckless driving, unsafe sex, gambling)
Difficulty trusting others or forming close relationships

πŸ“Œ If these symptoms persist, it’s important to seek support to process the trauma in a healthy way.

Trauma vs. PTSD – What’s the Difference?

Not everyone who experiences trauma develops PTSD. Trauma is a natural emotional response, while PTSD is a mental health disorder that occurs when trauma remains unresolved and severely disrupts daily life.

πŸ“Œ If trauma symptoms last for several months and affect relationships, work, or overall well-being, it may indicate PTSD.

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Trauma and PTSD

  • PTSD UK provides information and support for those affected by PTSD and trauma.
  • Mind - PTSD offers information and support for managing PTSD.
  • NHS UK Check your mental health symptoms online
  • NHS - PTSD offers comprehensive information on PTSD and treatment options.
  • Royal College of Psychiatrists provides information and resources for understanding and managing PTSD.

While we aim to provide accurate and updated information, MMH Men’s Mental Health is not responsible for the quality, accuracy, or availability of external services linked on this page. If you notice a broken link or have a resource to suggest, let us know.

Ways to Cope and Regain Control

These steps can help you navigate challenges and build resilience over time.

If your struggles persist or affect your daily life, consulting a professional is recommended.

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Educate yourself
Understanding trauma and PTSD can help you make sense of your experiences and feelings. The treatment options that suit you.
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Talk to someone you trust
Open up to a therapist, counsellor, doctor, or a supportive friend or family member. Sharing your story is a powerful step towards healing.
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Seek professional help
Therapy can provide tools and techniques to manage your symptoms, process your trauma, and develop healthy coping mechanisms.
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Build a support network

Surround yourself with positive and understanding people who can listen without judgment. Consider joining a men’s support group specifically for trauma survivors.

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Focus on self-care
Prioritize healthy sleep, regular exercise, and activities you enjoy. Relaxation techniques like deep breathing and meditation can also be helpful.

You Are Awesome.

Reaching out is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Take the next step:

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Need to talk?
Samaritans are here to listen, 24/7. You can call them for free on 116 123 or visit www.samaritans.org

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Prefer texting?
Shout offers free, 24/7 confidential support. Text β€˜SHOUT’ to 85258 to start a conversation or visit
www.giveusashout.org

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Explore More
Looking for guidance? Browse external resources on mental health, self-care, and well-being.

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Support Groups
Find connection. Join an external support group and connect with others who understand.

MMH Men’s Mental Health does not provide direct support. These options connect you to external services and resources.